Its a common experience to hear people say that I don’t love this person, because he is ‘like this’ or because he is ‘not like that’.
Why do we become a Capitalist while thinking about the self, and becoming a socialist while judging someone else.
Men put conditions to Love for others and then, at times start feeling low themselves because of being unable to fulfill his own conditions and hence lose the love for the self.
We need to realize that life is not a movie where the Hero is all good and the Villan is all bad. We need to give space for mistakes, shortcomings. Only if we allow this space for others, we would be able of love, ourselves and our loved ones without conditions.
I think, only this love has the magnanimity to contain the mundanity of an individual, has the warmth to heal, has the steadiness to stay on; everything else is just coupling of conveniences which we all do with our neighbours to make life easier.